I appreciate all of the help i have recieved from all of you coping with my BF's crossdressing...but here's something I did not expect. It's been about a month since he's been dressing around me...at least 4 nights a week, and now that the initial shock and confusion has worn off I find myself totally falling in love with "her" and actually prefer to be around her. She's incredibly gorgeous, way more fun, nicer to be around...it's crazy. I feel like I'm cheating on him with her and miss her when she's not around and don't like it when he takes off the wig and make-up at night. I'm really having a hard time putting the 2 pieces of him together in to one person. Maybe it's the newness of everything and that now that I'm over the initial shock I'm just loving it a little too much because it has been alot of fun. But I do feel like I have 2 sets of feelings right now and much more for her than him. This can't be normal. Any thoughts?????????????? Nicky