My dear, it isn't an easy thing to do, confronting a CD about his Cding. I'm sure he is as nervous as you are. So I'll give you the same advise I would give him if it were he who was wanting to tell you, GO SLOW!! Let him know you are fine with it and set some ground rules. As for seeing other men wearing stockings and lingerie let me say that it is a way of us CDers to feel normal, that is seeing others doing the same things we like to do. So please don't read too much into it.
