When you do approach him about this, do not use wording like the above - "looking at men in lingerie" that makes it sound gay which hetereo CDs usually fear they will be mistaken for. His interest is about how clothes help to feminize a male's appearance in order for them to express the feminine aspects of their personality.Originally Posted by notsurewhattodo
CDs are very sensitive about how they are perceived, I suggest you spend some time on this site learning about the underlying motivations for crossdressing before you talk to your boyfriend to get the wording right to avoid him clamming up.
There is another alternative - he may just have a sexual fetish for stockings and uses CD sites for convenience. You will not know until you talk to him so keep an open mind and listen carefully to what he says.
