I would absolutely have not be okay with my husband in a wedding dress at our wedding! 1st and foremost, my children with a different man were at my wedding. They are to never know about Audrey under any circumstances.

Had this been discussed, meaning if he had any interest in it at all, and my children were non-existent then it is a minor possibility. He would have had to have shown me that it was something important to him. If the kids were part of the equation, and it were something equally important to him, then it could be discussed to have a private ceremony between us.