Well saidExactly. That's your thing. If this forum is to have rules specifying what does and doesn't count as "acceptable crossdressing" it will go down the pan pretty fast. So far, the mods have been pretty good about stopping offensive attacks on members who don't have exactly the same attitudes. Questions, requests for explanation, even polite disagreement and declarations of "I just don't see it myself" perfectly acceptable. If I come to your party, I'll check with you what you will accept me wearing, but if object to your rules badly enough, don't expect me to turn up.It sounds like you are saying that the majority here are only those that "would go all the way" in dressing or even further, in transitioning? I'm not at all that certain, I think there are a lot of others like myself who inhabit the sidelines for the most part, and maybe because they have a broader view, are less likely to jump in with"That's not right"