I am going to have to say, there is a lot of privilege here. If you can possibly think that women have more rights then you and feminism is a problem, then you just can't see how much privilege you actually have. And I agree with some of the posts. You can accept DADT and decide that you are willing to live with that, but don't call yourself trapped. Everyone has free choice, you just may not be choosing to exercise it. For those that choose it, that is great. But you are only trapped by your own doings.