I'd like to think that, like many on here I have quite a good CD radar when out and about. This morning was a case in point. As I walked across the city from the station to the office, I became aware of a person about 20 yards ahead of me. They were presenting as a woman about town. Perhaps it was the short boyish hair (GG can have short boyish hair), maybe it was the line of the hips, the shape of the calf, the boxy shoe in a larger size. Maybe it was a combination of all of these. But my CD radar was definitely activated. My suspicions were heightened when I drew level as they were held up at a road crossing. The face was boyish. The lights changed and we went our separate ways. Now, I follow the very good advice that is common here, that if you see a CD out and about, then you should leave them to get on with their business and not draw attention to them or to you. Also, the CD radar is not infallible. But, and this is the point of this post, I had followed them for three or four minutes across a busy city centre and not one (other) person gave them a second glance. They were presenting a female and the populace as a whole just accepted that they were. Now, I am a closeted CD, I have the freedom to dress as I want but I choose not to go out. I simply lack the confidence. And yet, here was proof, in front of me, that of you have the confidence, if you make the effort to present, not necessarily fully convincingly, but sufficiently well to be acceptable, then nothing happens, you don't even register to those who pass by. And here we come to another thing, what's the worst that could (generally) happen? Someone might think, ‘Oh look, there's a cross dresser’. Sometimes I wish I had that bit of extra confidence.