Yeah people by and large don’t care and are too occupied with their own life to bother.

HOWEVER (the caveat!) there are “bad” dressers out there that will get a lot of looks. I hate to use that adjective but I don’t know if another way to describe them. If you live in any big city you’ve probably seen at least one: wig looks like it was run over before being put on sideways, makeup looks like toddler finger painting, second-had ball gown with mismatched tights, feather boa, and shoes that just don’t go. My point being expressing youself is great, but be ready for the consequences if you don’t have at least a small sense of proper attire. Sometimes they’re not staring because you’re dressed as a woman, but rather because you’re dressed poorly.