You are in the wrong bathroom........

[Krisi]

havent had a lot of time, but will try to answer questions as I get a few minutes here and there. sorry, work sucks.

Ok here goes. My daughter should not be alone with ANY male who is not a relative. Be it her school principal in his office, the next door neighbor, or a man in the bathroom. These places all have privacy that accommodates people looking to do harm to children. But all of these grown ups have matured and understand right from wrong and consequences. However, a teenager, especially teenage males, have not fully developed mentally. They act on impulses. They do things without thinking about right and wrong or about consequences. Now add to that someone who is gender dysphoric. Now that person really has pressure on them, but they are not fully mentally developed. Now they have access to a private space, unguarded, with females. (so little johnny, who 2 months ago decides he wants to be a girl is now free to roam the girls bathroom, when suddenly he gets an "urge" to touch a genetic girl.) So you tell me, is the person I am describing more likely to act on impulse than a grown up in that situation? I think where people go wrong with what I said is they are focusing on the word trans when I am focusing on the word TEEN. BTW, who pays higher car insurance? Grown ups or teens? And what teens pay higher insurance, boys or girls? I don't know if I do a good job explaining...

I think you are making a big mistake in thinking that all teenagers are not fully developed mentally and that all adults are. It's a bad generalization. If teenagers haven't fully developed mentally, why are they allowed to drive? Why are they allowed to join the military and carry weapons? And why are they allowed to vote?

Watch the news on TV for a while and you will see that most people arrested for sex crimes are adults. Some are school teachers. Some are relatives.

I think it's a shame that some parents teach their children to be fearful of adults and especially men. They should be taught what's right and what's wrong and how to defend themselves, but this fear of men can last a lifetime and affect relationships, both intimate and otherwise. At some point, your daughter will have to be without your "protection". She will have to know how to handle herself.

Standing outside the ladies room door and monitoring who goes in is pretty creepy. You know, a woman might report you or even call the police. She might take your photo and post it on social media.

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After reading your second post, I think you are paranoid to the extreme. Who are you to decide who is "shady" or not? Who are you to decide who can talk to your child? You are apparently one of the parents I mentioned above who is teaching his child to fear anyone they don't know. That's bad for her and it's going to hurt her in the long run. A person who asks your child about her dog isn't necessarily a pedophile. What are you going to do, lock her in the house and home school her?