After reading thru all the vitriol, frustration, and anger in Confused's thread I found the need to say something!

It is MY opinion no "good marriages" r ruined by a CDing partner, only "bad marriages".

A bad marriage being one that already has so many issues the CDing is simply the straw that broke the camels back. That was the case in MY marriage. My ex used it as an excuse. But, we split because she found a new partner!

Doubt my theory? Then, post your 2 cents and prove me wrong!