It really is the effort we take to look good, ladylike. Maybe that's why I take so long deciding what outfit to wear ,I like to think I look put together(for my age group)which I believe makes my appearance more acceptable and able to move about in the RW as myself. I hope I debunk the myths and misconceptions about TG persons. I do receive comments almost all the time I'm out and about on my clothing, hair, nails etc...I know you know what I'm saying. Receiving compliments and having small talk with others just proves we're on the right path for our happiness.