A question for others navigating strict DADT. I?m referring to those of you who were able to get away with a little planning before lockdown. You can?t order things and have them delivered, don?t have an opportunity to leave the home. You can?t dress fully, you can?t shop online and Covid is rampant in your area and you are retired. The days feel endless and all you can see ahead are likely another six months of the same.

I love my wife and am not looking to upset her or destroy our marriage. Parading publicly around my rural non accepting community in a dress code will not make things better. Basically I am appealing to a silent minority that I know are following along but not commenting. This won?t win me any fans but are there others who?s resolve is to resist the urge to dress openly so as to preserve the marriage? I?d like to hear from you.