I must get caught with makeup out, jewelry out, clothes out, closet door open, some makeup still showing, smelling like my wife's perfume, pictures on my phone... and it goes on.

Why is it still an issue? I am not throwing anything in my wives face trust me. I am doing the DADT thing per her request.

I would think by now she can love both sides of me and not just the male side. I am not talking about sex but as friends.

I really think she would like it. But that is her choice for sure.

Natalie