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    I went to Burger King for breakfast And I was dressed.The people that work there know me and are very accepting.Anyway I was waiting off to the side after I
    placed my order when a guy came up and introduced himself to me.He asked me if I would like to get a drink sometime.He gave me his Card With his phone number
    on it.The funny thing was I used to know him when we were kids.He didn't recognize me.I told him I was married.The girls behind the counter gave me some grief for that

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    Hi Machelle, That had to make you feel great though. Are you married? & do you think he knew you was a man? I bet the girls did have fun with you about it gives you all something to talk about.

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    I Don't think he knew I was a man.And No I am not married I just wear a wedding ring for jewelry
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    Awesome!
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    Hi, Michelle. I hate to hear that the employees at BK gave you grief about being hit on..... But as I've experienced myself, getting hit on while out en femme, while it's not a welcomed thing for me, it is expected. I've only been hit on twice, maybe three times and almost every time, a guy just asked me for my phone number and I told him no. LOL
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    Kim they didn't give me grief more of a teasing.It was all in good fun
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    Pretty cool...it actually happens! Gotta feel great!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Michelle8 View Post
    I Don't think he knew I was a man.And No I am not married I just wear a wedding ring for jewelry
    What an awesome experience! How did that feel? Had that ever happenned before? You must be really well put together for that to happen.

    Since you haven't posted pictures of yourself yet, can you descibe what you were wearing?
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    Some of us really enjoy the validation that comes with having a man hit on you, regardless of whether you are into them or not. You can savor that without guilt, and without worrying about the sexual politics. It's just a pleasant and fleeting interaction, unless you choose to take it to the next level. Just keep in mind that, if you do leave that option open, a lot of men see a CD as a sexual curiosity and not really as a human. Chalk this up to the ubiquitous nature of porn in the modern era. This may seem obvious but it can come as quite a surprise when a decent looking man, who was nice and polite with you in one breath, asks you in the next if you will do certain things to him or let him do certain things to you.

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    Patience I have never had that happen to me before.I do pass pretty easily and I do get looks from other men.I was wearing black leggings and a White coat with heeled
    boots.I try to look nice every time I go out.If you are trying to be a girl you should put the effort in
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    To date, all of the men hitting on me were married and attracted to the female form. There was no doubt that I was crossdressed each time. There are a lot of things which give us away especially up close. I asked the guy at checkout when I was buying beer one time if he knew I was male. He said my hands gave me away. The thing is, if you look attractive you will end up with male suitors at some point, so don?t be surprised when it happens whether you pass or not. Passing is not always a factor in my experience at least.

    It is kind of surprising the first time it happens and can boost your confidence for sure.

    Sandi
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    If I don't get hit on it kind of annoys me, LOL.
    Enjoy the compliment.
    That being said, most men don't care that you're a CD, they want to get their freak on.

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    Michelle, definably an ego boost even if you are married.
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    I'd much rather be hit on by a girl, and I have been once. I guess if we kissed i can call that being hit on (by a girl).
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    Michelle i think this is cool on two fronts. One you got hit on weather your intersted or not, says your doing a great job persenting. Secondly you know the girls at the BK well enough to tease you about it.

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    The shared experience I loved most is the teasing from the store staff - that says, "Us, too, Sister."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sandi Beech View Post
    The thing is, if you look attractive you will end up with male suitors at some point, so don't be surprised when it happens whether you pass or not. Passing is not always a factor in my experience at least.

    It is kind of surprising the first time it happens and can boost your confidence for sure.
    And it's "kind of surprising," to say the least, the *2nd* time it happens, and the third, and the...

    Surreal, is more like it!


    I never got used to it, in the least bit. Always felt like I had been blind-sided... Living a normal life one moment, and then the next? BAM! The whole time thinking, "Umm... You know I'm a *dude* under all this, yeah??"

    Sometimes they know. Sometimes they don't. Sometimes they're wondering. And sometimes they simply don't care, LOL!


    I think one of the craziest was when a cute guy came up to our table at a vanilla hetero club & started hitting on me -- in front of a bunch of my attractive & dolled-up GG-friends who were as shocked as I was!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sandi Beech View Post
    The thing is, if you look attractive you will end up will male suitors at some point, so don?t be surprised when it happens whether you pass or not.
    Is it TMI to reveal that this is a fantasy of mine? Of course, I've got to get out publicly first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Michelle8 View Post
    Patience I have never had that happen to me before.I do pass pretty easily and I do get looks from other men.I was wearing black leggings and a White coat with heeled
    boots.I try to look nice every time I go out.If you are trying to be a girl you should put the effort in
    Thanks for replying. That seems like an interesting outfit. Better than what the average GG wears at BK. Lol.

    Since you seem able to pass, might as well go all out. As I'm over 6-feet tall,all that production will only go so far.
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    I have to agree with Steffi. I'd much rather be hit on by a woman. In fact that's one reason (excuse?) why I'm not too thrilled about going out in public places. Assuming I could look good enough (probably a long shot), it would freak me out to be hit on by a guy. I'd probably just turn and run away! However, being hit on by a sexy, passable CD is another story. Not sure about that. Maybe I'll find out some day, if I ever get the courage to attend one of the CD events.

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    I have a mirror. When I'm not presenting as Sherry I know how old and homely I look!

    So, whenever I'm hit on I'm always shocked! Until I remember these guys don't want to kiss my ugly mug. They only want BJ's!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Larissa Cassandra View Post
    I have to agree with Steffi. I'd much rather be hit on by a woman. In fact that's one reason (excuse?) why I'm not too thrilled about going out in public places. Assuming I could look good enough (probably a long shot), it would freak me out to be hit on by a guy. I'd probably just turn and run away! However, being hit on by a sexy, passable CD is another story. Not sure about that. Maybe I'll find out some day, if I ever get the courage to attend one of the CD events.
    Maybe I should clarify. I was hit on by a GG and I kissed (a girl).

    I was also hit on by a CD, and we also kissed. Maybe I should be honest that we had a "get a room" makeout session. In public.
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    Steffi, yeah I think that could happen to me too, as I am only turned on by femininity, preferably a GG! But if too much maleness came through in the interaction, it would be an immediate turn-off.

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    I've never been hit on while dressed as a woman, but there was one night about 10-12 years ago when I passed a store window on the way back to my car, and an older man who appeared to be a security guard was smiling and waving at me. It felt kind of gratifying that there in the dark, my appearance was good enough to get an old codger to wave at me. (I'm only attracted to women, too, but I'm not entirely sure what I mean by that these days.)
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    "It felt kind of gratifying that there in the dark, my appearance was good enough to get an old codger to wave at me."


    OMG, why is this so funny??


    Thanks so much for making me laugh!


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