My wife knows about my crossdressing, and over the years, has actually become more comfortable with Maria. She is, however, hesitant to allow Maria to venture out, even on Holloween, when it would be least obvious. I have a feeling that she is getting more and more 'relaxed' about Maria, and actually had a wonderful time last weekend shoe shopping for my wife. She actually modeled her shoes for me, and asked if I wanted a matching pair, in my size. I was caught off guard, and when we go shopping again in a couple of weeks, I just might take her up on her offer and buy a matching pair of shoes in my size..wonder how the saleswoman is going to react...I will let you know....