Originally Posted by
crystal99
On friday I wore a band around my wrist, for crossdresser day as suggested by sandygal, for a bit of fun.
As most people thought I never saw anyone else with a band but I had so much fun.
I went out with friends of mine who don't know about the real me, in guy mode, but wore my most femme looking boy clothes, I shaved and wore THE TINYEST amount of makup, I'm talking unless you were me you wouldn't notice at all. I did this as a quiet homage to the sisters around the globe.
I was feeling very femme and as usual spent most of the night gossing with the girls. I was asked countless times about the band so I thought what the hell, here goes.
first I said it was a secret society I belong to, a guy said he was too and that he had just forgotten his band (if only he knew)
next after more people asked I said it was for a life I lead in secret and when pressed further I took a deep breath and said;
"for years I have been living a lie, I am transgender and I'm not going to live in secret any longer" or something to that effect. I told them about my dressing and how amazing I look and feel when dressed.
problem is I seem to have a reputation as a bit of a joker, nobody batted an eyelid and nobody believed a thing I said, they went along with the story they thought I was telling but even with me persisting that I wasn't joking they didn't believe
which brings me to the conclusion that to tell people I may just have to show them or, they did actually believe me but just didn't care what I did and would accept whatever I looked like as it was still me. who knows
has this happened to anyone else?