To Be or Not To Be. Isn’t that the Question?

[SamanthaSometimes]

The part about a GG looking in the mirror dressed as a man and feeling discomfort as an example of how a CDer occasionally feels makes a lot of sense. I wonder why this happens to people?

To your question Tinkerbell, I think Katey summed it up quite well in the quote below.

Many folk here accept this is something innate - we are born with it... something genetic, perhaps even hereditary.

I guess it all comes down to reconciling differences between people involved in a relationship. Some differences like CDing are harder for GGs to understand than others – much less acceptance. Regardless, the amount of love for and desire to remain in the relationship has to be assessed for every couple no matter the subject difference. I’m very glad you wanted to learn enough about the CD subject to join this forum and actively participate. I think that demonstrates your willingness to delve into the unknown for the love of your spouse and sake of your marriage. I wish I could get at least that much motivation from my wife.

I’ve been out of pocket for a while so just now getting to writing follow-up comments. Thanks to Tinkerbell, Isha, Jenny and Katey for your positive feedback.
Katey888: I really like your new picture. Thanks for all your effort in welcoming new members!
Jenny Elwood: You rock. Great reply to stefan37. Sometimes things progress well beyond our initial understanding.
Isha: Sounds like we have much in common – except for an accepting wife. You are so blessed.

[Wildaboutheels]

CDing IS ADDICTIVE given the OUTcome that almost everyone here has had/passed through/is still doing on occasion.

The vast majority of folks here are sharp enough not to claim "It's never been sexual for me" when some of their previous posts indicate otherwise.

Anyone here who thinks their male brains are EVER going to summarily dismiss "all those" Os, however many [the ASSOCIATION with the clothes] is seriously delusional.

It's well established Scientific FACT. ONLY male Os are necessary to keep Humans on the planet. Of course they are both easy and addictive for most men. They better be.

If Females could/would use clothing items of any type to help them get to the Promised Land, THEY too could/would easily become ADDICTED also. Battery powered devices are far more likely their "tool" of choice.

CDing DOES offer some unique advantages over both of the other 2 traditional aids to Oville for men.

It's not complicated.

MOST CDers could quit.

IF they had a good enough reason and/OR a better alternative.

[Samantha_Smile]

Sticky on this please, admin?