Quote Originally Posted by Amy Wannabe View Post
...I do know for a fact that GGs do change, everybody changes. It's like this. "Nothing stays the same and nothing lasts forever." This is something I taught my kids and it is true. You have to enjoy what you want now, because it may not be here tomorrow. Most GGs find someone else, somewhere else that is a so-called better MAN and that's what can shake everything up. I have found that a GG will go to better grounds when their not happy rather than to accept and adjust to the situation.
Why is it so difficult to grasp the fact that "change" is not the exclusive domain of GG's. Look at the majority of the posts from transgender members who bemoan the fact that their SO's have changed. It is very rare that one even suggests that the change could have started with them. How foolish we are if we believe that we are rock-solid individuals, leading a life filled with consistent behavior. Would it hurt us to just consider once in a while that maybe the change we are noticing is in ourselves and not our partners?