Your fears are good fears, I certainly do not suggest that I do not have many of these fears as well. More importantly I know that I must get beyond these fears if ever I am to be happy. Like anything, you continually push the envelope and then check to see if you are happy where you are. If you are not happy then push the envelope some more. If you do this in small steps it will get easier. By testing the waters in this way you will see that it is not so bad after all, that the world does not come crashing down, that you learn something new about yourself and the world around you and you start better understanding what it is that you really want, what it is that will really make you happy in your life.

You will never learn anything by hiding from your fears.

Huggs
Melissa