Smile, well done on acknowledger your silliness, we all do summat stupid in out lives (me to many times to count), it is nice to see someone stand up and say "I did wrong and I think what she did in retaliation is fair" ......... it sounds like you have a good loving relationship with your SO and want to keep it that way
She took some hair off her thighs, and now her property gets destroyed/removed? That's not a loving relationship. That's an abusive relationship.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.