A lot of CD's and even TS who say nothing about it is sensual are just trying to "clean it up" for the GG's and to look wholesome. There is this theory among some TG that GG's have no turn-ons related to wearing anything.
It has actually been studied. It turns out that women can experience autogynephilia, too.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.