I guess it just depends on the girl! All of us come from varied backgrounds, age groups, socio-economic groups, etc, etc. And all of us have been dressing at different frequencies for varying numbers of years. And then there's just the level of interest: some of us will only ever get excited about wearing frilly panties, while others will want to explore more complex concepts of womanhood. Someone brought up the excellent point that our CD sides haven't necessarily had time to develop in the same way that our male sides have. I can say for me, I might be 32 irl, but my CD is 21, tops. That doesn't just develop overnight. Shoot, when I was 21, I had about 3 pairs of panties, 10 lipsticks, an ugly pair of heels, and no sophistication at all (to say that I'm sophisticated today might be stretch, even, but relatively speaking, hehe...). Sooo, for numerous reasons, you're going to get a wide variety of ages, interests, and attitudes.

I guess the best thing you can take out of this is to not judge your SO by how anyone else in a CD forum acts. To do so is to sell both he and yourself short. Actually, it's a good lesson in life in general: judge others on their own merits, not on the merits of those around them, or those that you might initially lump into that same category. We're all different, more or less.