A fried had a photo of me doing drag at a Halloween party posted on the wall in his office, i could be standing right there beside the photo and people would ask him who that was in the photo...sometimes even who that girl is in the photo.. at that point it was plain to me most people would not know me if they saw me dressed. i recently even changed my photo here from the one with me and my wig to one of just me and my real hair. while it is long in boy mode i wear it back in a ponytail and most would never think it looks like it does when i style it and comb it down. So those who know me could look at it and still not see me.. so i really don't worry about. Also i am getting more open about being a CD so i guess i don't really care as much anymore either..