I think you want to be accepted for who you are with everyone, i am the same way, i do not broadcast it but lots of people know and most i have told, its a secret i wanted out because i had been in the closet too long and had been told too many times it wasnt right for me to want to dress, but you know what, it is ok, everyone should be able to wear what they feel comfortable in, i feel more like me in a dress and heels,