Like I said, it certainly sounds like he's the one in the wrong here, but "betrayed" is a pretty strong word, and there are a lot of details left out.Originally Posted by Rianna Humble
We need details about this agreement. If it had always stayed in the bedroom, why was an agreement needed? Why bring it up? Because he told you that he didn't want it to always stay in the bedroom? If so, then maybe you should feel betrayed, but why would you be shocked if you already knew it was something he wanted to do?
It's an incredibly suspicious way of stating the situation.
I only pee in the bathroom. I do not go outside and pee on the sidewalk next to my apartment. But my landlord has never asked me to agree not to pee on the sidewalk. If I had to make a verbal agreement with my landlord not to pee on the sidewalk, that in itself means something strange is going on.
It sounds like you knew it was something he wanted to do, so you tried to tell him not to, and he tried to keep it in the closet so you would leave him alone. And then he resented it, so he decided he was going to do what he wanted. And now this happened. He should've had the balls to tell you how he felt instead of just doing it. But it's hardly surprising.
