Quote Originally Posted by Lola14U View Post
A few items in the bedroom vs. seeing him fully dressed going out without me was an eye opener. I felt like the wife that didnt know her hubby had a money scheme going on LOL. I am trying to understand it all and figure out where that leaves me.
You're leaving out major details. Did you even try to talk to him? What did he say? Where was he going? Was he dressed like a normal woman or like a hooker? Had you ever gone out in the past together?

Obviously there's a lack of communication here, and it sure sounds like he's the one in the wrong, but what exactly made you feel betrayed by him leaving the house the way he was dressed? You think he was going to go to a club and try to hook up?