Maybe your in Denial ? An really want to become a total woman an be with a man for good an just don't want to hurt your wife in the process ?
Because as countless other have already said they would kill to be able to just dress or share this part of themselves with there SO .
Or maybe there is NO END ? Some people are just chaos junkies an are never satisfied ? They push an push till there's nothing left ?
( JUST SAYING ) ??/
