As stated in my original post "My wife knows of Nicole's desires and encourages Nicole to have a special friend knowing she doesn't have the right parts to satisfy Nicole."
She's so supportive, she even makes sure I have 'me' time with the house to myself.
My wife and I have discussed it very openly and honestly - there is not a doubt in my mind she's all for it... She knows Nicole has desires and she can't satisfy all the desires - it does cause frustrations. In our conversations she has told me, "Nicole needs to be satisfied too; you get grumpy and frustrated." "I can accept it and have no problem if you're bi and have a special friend - so long as that special friend is not another woman." She goes on to tell me, I don't have the right equipment, so go have fun." "If Nicole gets satisfied elsewhere, I'll have only my man and no longer have to try to satisfy her" She's even admitted that she'd like to sometime watch as a precurser to our fun later after Nicole and her 'boyfriend' leave. Yeah, I have it made as far as having a supporting spouse. So my only inhibitions are all within my own head.
How do you silence those voices in your head that tell you this is wrong on so many levels to relax and just roll with it?
