Hi Blue, I'm sorry, but I believe I lost you somehow, Nicole may have been a little rough but she really is nice. Other than that, I see nothing but support and respect for Sarah. Please elaborate on your thoughts.
Sarah, believe it or not, it is you that has "allowed" yourself to be at peace w/ this. You have decided that you will not be "afraid" of yourself which in turn makes you "not afraid" of the man that you Love. Congratulate Yourself Sweetie.
You See, She really is a kitty even though she may roar like a lioness.
I'm very happy that you feel this way. Isn't it wonderful too be in Love w/o trying to analyze it.