Quote Originally Posted by PaulaQ View Post
I'm sorry, but I have to take exception to this part of your statement. This is NOT a fantasy, what they are feeling. It's part and parcel of gender dysphoria. Pretty much *all* of the trans people I know want acceptance of others of their gender.

So sure, for a CDer, they may still be male identified. But their feelings are very real.

Despite that, I agree with you, and Lisa can do way better than the guy she's flirting with online.
I appreciate your response, but stating that I can do "way better" is implying that he's a bad person. He's far from that and let me stress again, we talk. Maybe after talking to me, he'll realize that he wants nothing more than to stay with his wife. Maybe he has no intention of ever cheating.