Last night my wife initiated sex for the first time since I told her about my CDing 5 months ago. Since then it's been mostly DADT, though she hasn't objected to my wearing female underwear to bed from time to time.

I now fear that if I try to have a discussion about CDing again it might be another 5 months, or even longer...

I'm a crossdresser, not a monk.

HELP !!