I'm so fortunate. In the beginning our relationship, my wife (fiancee at the time) was aware of my desire, was between a 4 and 5, wouldn't tolerate me dressing up, and was scared that I may want to transition full-time. Now, many years later, she's between a 2 and 3. She allows it, knows it makes me happy and content, brings us closer together realizing that she is expressing unconditional love for me by allowing me to be my true self. From time to time, she does need assurances that I'm not interested in transitioning into a woman. She's absolutely wonderful and I have to keep reminding myself not to take her for granted and to repeatedly remind her how much I love her and to thank her for supporting me in expressing my feminine side...Nikki
P.S. My clothes and wigs are in our walk-in closet, my makeup is in a drawer in the bathroom, she'll occasionally shop for me in bricks and mortar stores, let's me shop on-line using her name, gives me all her makeup she tries and doesn't like or gets tired of, willing to talk and learn more about my crossdressing whenever it comes up, watch transgender shows together such as Caitlyn Jenner's show, she's not comfortable yet seeing me transformed as Nikki but expresses interest that she may be open to seeing Nikki in the future, and allows me to dress anytime I feel the desire.
