Awesome Reine...
If you want to add one statistic to that analysis that does have a bearing on the members here, some time back I did an analysis of Introduction threads and whether new members (who did an Intro) were out to an accepting wife or in some other circumstance. At that time (during 2014) 47% of new members were out to an accepting SO... (I know - I should probably do the update for 2015...) I suspect that indicates something about the nature of new members and why they join...?
About 14% were married and fully closeted/secret. Many of them possibly wouldn't have been drawn to the poll because the title implies your wife would need to know to have an attitude.Statement #5 was also a little judgmental - "I've been afraid to tell her..." Personally I choose not to tell her - so you can put me down as another #5... that'll take it up half a percent...
Katey x