Have you been with a guy?

[Mayo]

Fantasy is an important part of our sexual identity and our lives as sexual beings. Sometimes fantasies fulfilled are amazing and lead (as they have in your case) to personal growth and improved relationships. Sometimes the reality fails to live up to the fantasy (as has been the case for some members who've posted here) but people are richer for the experience. And some fantasies are better left that way. Your mileage may vary. :D

EDIT:

Although it would be nice to be able to factor in the fantasy element, which I think is an important one here and is a category in itself separate from any attraction to men and/or women. There are people who source their greatest sexual gratification on their own in this community.

In the absence of other information, an unfulfilled fantasy generally got the poster a rating of 1.