DianeT, Thanks very much. Learned something new today. Appreciate it. I know I?m one of the lucky ones. I would?ve bet the farm she?d be long gone when I told her. Thankfully, I was wrong. We read a lot and talked a lot. Bottom line...neither one of us understand my CDing. There are three stipulations...1. Don?t wear her clothes, 2. Don?t go out and 3. Tell her immediately if there any changes...i.e transition. I agreed to all.