They made CD's feel that they were "posers", that they didn't belong since they were not transitioning.
So sad to hear that. You're right. Their behavior was inexcusable.
What I posted was just wondering if perhaps you'd misunderstood their intent, but it sure doesn't sound like it.
My apologies.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.