CDing more sexual for MTFs than for FTMs. ( FTM and GG opinions needed)

[Marla S]

Caution: This thread has something to do with genitalia, please keep it clean. (Mods, feel free to move it or close it).


For most of the MTFs the sexual aspect of CDing is or was a central one or at least very important one. Some enjoy it and don’t want to miss it, others (like me) suffered from it or at least became irritated by the interrelation of “feminine side” and a “typical male” sexual behaviour. This “contradiction” even forced the psychologist to extend the definition of sexual fetish, inventing the term “transvestic fetishism”.
Like CaptLex pointed out in another thread this almost automatic interrelation of sexual excitement and gender identification for MTFs seems to be a rare exception for FTMs.

Why is that ?
Usually it will be said: it’s the male hormones and males are more visual.
That is certainly true, but could there be another reason ? One that is caused simply anatomically?
By anatomically I mean the way male and female genitalia “behave”.
(This cause was discussed in a BBC documentation to explain male and female sexuality, but not focused on CDing or fetishism.).

Thesis:
(The part that I know a bit what I am talking about ):
By swelling male genitalia give an immediate feedback about sexual stimulation. It is inevitable to realize that immediately, not so much because the penis is so sensitive, but because of secondary effects: Pants become tight, it is touchable and visible.
(The part, I have to memorize from the documentation)
This immediate feedback seems not to be the case for females, because it happens inside the body and is not so easy to detect even for the women themselves. (I have been astonished to hear that a lot of women don’t seem to even know what really happens or should happen).

Question:

Could the pronunciation of sexual aspect of CDing for the MTFs to a good part be a caused by a simple (self-)conditioning due to the "explicit behavior" of their genitalia?

You wear a woman’s item, someday you get an erection, feel the “tightness”, grab there, … well you know the end. Next time you maybe dress in order to get an erection.
This could easily become a self-enforcing “vicious circle” (fetishistic behaviour) which is harder to enter for women due to their anatomy ?

Nonsense or a possible explanation ?