I hate having to be careful of what I say around people I'm not out to.

I hate not being able to share some things with people I'm out to who aren't trans.

I hate having to bushwhack my path at times.

I hate that how I wish my body was is often called nasty things, even in the T* community.

I hate having to worry about whether or not I should tell people I love who I really am.

I dislike "either/or" because usually I'm neither.