I thought everything my CDer said at the beginning was *the truth* and it was for then. Things changed as the years went on. I of course felt *betrayed*. Now I know that he was telling me the truth as he saw it at that time. He didn't know that his own desires and wants would change.

As others have said Cding can be progessive. Don't end up feeling let down if things change for your husband. He can only speak the truth from that point in time not into the future.


Louise.