As we know, us CD's have a feminine side.
If the guy was a gentleman, it was that femme part of your psyche responding normally. Myself, I love being treated like a lady when I am en femme. I think most of us do.
There is no shame in being attracted to anyone who is a decent person.
Honestly, I say don't try to figure it out, just enjoy it.
Originally Posted by MlleErin
As we know, us CD's have a feminine side.
If the guy was a gentleman, it was that femme part of your psyche responding normally. Myself, I love being treated like a lady when I am en femme. I think most of us do.
There is no shame in being attracted to anyone who is a decent person.
Honestly, I say don't try to figure it out, just enjoy it.
wow very well said , just be careful
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If it was enjoyable to you then you shouldn't be ashamed nor should you feel any guilt. I have done the same thing, not with a webcam, but with photos and had a wonderful time with a number of fellow CD's and men.
haven't done so in awhile, but looking forward to the next time i do!
it is what it is! but definitely be careful!! there are a lot of nutters out there!
Good luck!
Jonnie XOXO
My first "out of the closet" rush was online web cam. Me and a pair of heels, nice black thigh highs. I must admit, I enjoyed the attention he gave me, it felt nice.....
Hugs!
SandyR
Real Men can Cook in Heels...
Whenever I get "That question," from people. I.E. "Are you gay?" I always answer, "not yet, but who knows!"
Your femme side was very flattered by the attention, it's a compliment and a turn on when someone treats you as a woman. Should you be surprised? Not really, the reaction is just about like the way a GW would feel in that situation. It's happened to a lot of us.
Quite a few won't admit to it, but I think virtually all of us have indulged in "fantasy's." There are literally millions of us reading The Stories on Fictionmania, and they are all the equivalent of CD Romance novels. Yes, quite a bit more hard-core, but nonetheless they are ROMANCE stories. I think there's an obvious attraction for CD's.
Your ambivalent feelings are natural. But, I would counsel to "hold your water, relax, count to ten....or ten million, and see how you feel about things in a couple of weeks." These things when given time, start to look a lot less attractive. We let our logical brain start sorting things out and suddenly impulsive acts lose their appeal.
After you examine things, if you want to "pursue the dream," by all means, "Go for it Gurlfriend!" Who the heck am I to tell you nay!
Peace and Love, Joanie
Dear SD,
I think u will look back at your feelings posted here, in say, 10 or 20 years. And u will have a chuckle! Who knows where path leads? I certainly don't, and I've had a long time to figure it out!
Discovered I liked bondage, well after I was your age.
20 years later, I start dressing in ladies clothes, and wondering what the heck I'm doing!
In between, I've investigated A LOT of fetishes.
As others have counselled; be careful, be sure u r doing what U WANT! Then, just sit back and enjoy the journey.
RS
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