OMG, Kim! Those kind of people? Just who does she think she is!?:Angry3: Kim, you must get the notion out of your head that YOU hurt your wife. Nothing could be farther from the truth. A narrow-minded, judgmental, dimwit hurt your wife. You wife sound like a tremendous woman. But as Aluchi has said, what appears as tragedy often is what strengthens. The two of you draw on your shared passion for life. You have my number... call me if you want to talk.