Well if you cant be your self , then find new friends
Well if you cant be your self , then find new friends
it sux that if we want to be fem or explore that side of ourselves we are considered outcasts, but women can look like a guy and she is fashionable or just being comfortable...it is a sad world we like in with all this intolerance and hatred for being different, It would be an awful boring world if everyone was the same:mad:
hang in there in Kim
Have you tried talking to you mother-in-law about this? Perhaps you and your wife could sit down with her and at least convince her to respect your privacy for the sake of her daughter and grandchildren. Good luck dear!
[SIZE="3"]Michelle[/SIZE]
Kim, U and your wife r living proof of that saying. From your posts u seem to be a real "stand up guy", ( gal?). I know you'll come thru this on your feet.
Thanks for posting this thread. It must have been difficult for u.
I appreciate your warning to us all. Tomorrow, I'm going to buy new, bigger locks, for my closet
RS
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Kimberly,
From One of Those People to another, I am very happy that you and your wife will get through this. Your both an insiration to our community.
Mercedes XOXOXO
P.S. now you can quote Shrek by saying "Better out than in."
Proud to be a member of the "One Those People Club" and the "Screw'em if they have a Problem Club"
Kudos to the both of you!!
See you at the meetings!
XXX
Megan
Loving the Lace!
Tx Kimberely.... you are such a beautiful girl. Don't let them drag you down hon! some of the old biddies are smart ,but most if them just need a shove. Tell them to get out of the way.
It's hard to believe that a mother would hurt her family in such a way buy making public knowlege of something private. I feel for your situation and wish you all the best. This Wicked Witch is just that...Wicked.
Monica
I'm glad you're feeling better about all this Kim! I know that even though you're not the cause of the pain, that your wife being hurt is hard to handle. I guess the longer that you are "out" and about, the more chances of others learning about you. It's kind of the risk we all take when we leave the safety of our houses. I'm willing to take the risk, but not real fond of it. I fear losing my connections with the Boy Scouts or having a few low brows attack my home or property in the dead of night. Most of all I fear it affecting my family. It's one of those things in life that you have to deal with as best you can. It can SUCK, but as my Senior Chief always said "Life Sucks and then you die!".
Of course that could also apply to everything else that make me, me. I state my political beliefs in big 4' x 8' signs on my lawn in the election season (had a few disappear). I confront people in public when they're being "A" holes. And I stop to help strangers. All of these things can get you killed on a bad day. Do I stop them? No Way! I'd rather die young than to live my life according to my fears.
You are a lovely lady with class and talent and are sooo... much better than those "others". Your wife knows that even with the down side of our TG lives that she has a gift, and that gift is you. Special people are hard to find, you both are very lucky to have found each other.
Enjoy your holidays and have a great weekend!
Love,
Sally
It's hard to admit, but sometimes things are best left alone. If this conversation were to take place, I doubt my wife or I could keep our tempers, things WOULD escalate, and it would be ugly. We will just let the rattle snake . . err. . . the Mother in law thing go.Originally Posted by Michelle S
VERY well put Sally and exactly the way I feel about it. Among your other good traits, the things you mention here are why I consider you a friend, not just an acquaintance.
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I am so sorry about your experence (it was a bad one) and you have have gotten a lot of good advice.
The good side is you and your wife have grown from the experence
Oh, Kimberly that is sad. You and your wife must have wonderful communication skills to be so honest with one another. I always enjoy reading what you are up to. You and your wife are so inspirational. I wish you and your family all the best. I believe you are in great company as far as being "one of those kinds of people" go.
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Just another man in a dress
Yup! I'll stand up with you too and be counted among the proud and brave of 'those kind of people'.
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
I feel the same way, I really do not care what people think of me as long as they leave my family out of it.
You are a wonderful person and so is your wife. Sweep that beautiful lass in your arms, dip her and kiss her deeply. Then thank her for being such a wonderful person and take her out for a night on the town. You both deserve it. (Flowers are a sure fire winner too).
I am so happy that you two are on the same page.
Z
:GE:Don't sweat the small stuff...and its all SMALL stuff.
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