I feel the same way, I really do not care what people think of me as long as they leave my family out of it.
You are a wonderful person and so is your wife. Sweep that beautiful lass in your arms, dip her and kiss her deeply. Then thank her for being such a wonderful person and take her out for a night on the town. You both deserve it. (Flowers are a sure fire winner too).
I am so happy that you two are on the same page.
Z