I am still attempting this and still having problems with this. i understand the part about my boys being pushed upwards but what about the shaft? Does this go between your legs and then the panties hold him in place? Or do you tape him in there? or is he supposed to point to the floor? HELP. I can't get it to stay. I want to wear a new skirt that i got, but everytime I do it's to tight and there is a bulge. I know if I tuck it won't be there.