I know and that's a bout the most stupid thing I have ever heard. So now when I'm around one of my nieces who loves to use that term I say "Oh Destiny! That's sooo straight!" When she says something is so gay. haha Gets her every time.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.