Interesting thread Apologies for my leave of absence, my reali life has been getting in the way of my internet life :mad:, tsk.

Discussions about gender and sexuality will be never ending because it is all very fluid and therefore it is wrong to put any individual into any one box - but sadly it happens.

My Specialist at the Gender Clinic summed it up very succinctly when she said "Gender is in the head, sexuality is between the legs" and that is pretty much it. To that end, it comes down to the person and no two people will ever be the same and we all have varied likes, dislikes, preferences (whether that be sexuality, food, clothes, music etc.).

Unfortunately people will always make detrimental assumptions when they are ignorant of facts. The most important thing in gender and sexuality is to be true to yourself and how you feel - when people criticise or label us wrongly, that is their failing and stereotypical attitudes.