worst way to get caught ! lock yourself out in full dress - no money,credit cards ! the only way to get back into your appartment is to ring your sister who may suspect your a cder but youve never told her ! that is my absolute nitemare senario ! someone recently said (a tg meeting leader) you might secretly be wanting that to happen ! i say no !!! you bet your life if and when i come out to people it will be in my own way/time not through being in an uncomfortable situation - fantasy and reality are 2 different things and this is 1 for fantasy only (getting caught out !) UNPLANNED !