Originally Posted by
Katie Ashe
Many of you have great points. She was/is Bi-curious and was with a girl for about 5 min, until she was reminded "boys only", We've been together for 18 years, we both agreed to work through this, she is not ready to leave. We have strong family values and are a close family of 4. Think like a women, yes I can see that and do, but your glass has water and mine has lemonade, I just need a little help somethimes ok. Some of her problem is society and that plays a big part on how she feels, affraid. I am sensitive to her needs, and tried over the last 10 years to tell her, it ain't easy you know. Sex, can't do it, Not required to have good relationship, but she misses it, but has her own problems that I will not discuse here. There is so much I'm not saying here to fill in the blanks, I'm just tring to cover the basics. I've been continplating offing myself since age 14, but can't do it out of guilt. She didn't ask for this, nor did I, we are doing the best we can. Yes maybe she doesn't need a girlfriend, maybe she needs a husband, but I was a very bad husband... and now I am a very good spouse, whom happens to really be a girl. I've asked her if she wants Bryan or Katie... Hands down Katie was her answer. She loved Bryan for whom he tried to be and never was, but now trust/love Katie as she was the person Bryan was tring to be. Does that make since, think I wrote that right... Thanks for your input it is appriecated.
