Dear Stef,
I'm afraid it isn't just the Middle East. Even here in the good ol' USA, I've encountered the same thing. Repeatedly.
Those who are looking for sex (often on the down low) are willing not to take NO for an answer. (I guess they think they're god's gift to men, or that no means maybe???)
And those who are looking for just friendship are scared to meet anyone new (possibly because of all the ones looking for sex?).
All I can say is, persevere. Keep looking. Keep being clear about what you want (and don't want). And you will find friends. I did. Took a while though.
Blessings,
Rikki
