Only read the first page so far , but wanted to say this.
At my age I have reached the attitude where I assess each individual I meet against some of my internal values, and as a result the frienship meter goes on or off. These values are ones to do with the old values of Honor , Truth, Worth ( not financial ), Intelligence is also atractive, as are a few other factors. It has nothing to do with colour, or sexual persuasion. I don't want to change people ... I want to enjoy the company and exchange views and frienship. If people have a problem with me ... it is their problem and not mine.
They just need a glass of Rum!
At the sydney Mardi gras I met a couple of gentlemen from Frankfurt and we have started conversing by Email. They are obviously very Gay, and I was Dressed at the restaurant. Their last email contained a group of photos of a well endowed and muscly young male .... for my enjoyment ..
.. I have returned a presentation of some stunning female bodybuilders! We will see where this goes!
Its good tongue in cheek stuff ..... The fact is I am comfortable with having gay friends and they seem comfortable with a CD friend.
Here we all are with the waitress who is straight. ( I think )
All good fun!